i know i been gone for a minute know i am back with the blog off! i had just not had anything passionate that move me to write happen in a few weeks but today ohhh today i have something on my mind that i need to unleash upon you all and i hope i cant stress this enough i hope you all read it comment on it and tell a friend to tell a fucking friend!
so my home girl was like why do i keep meeting lames! my first thought to my self (is damn i am so tired of women saying this shit) lets keep that in mind mmm Kay! My second thought was what is a lame?(can anybody tell me what is a lame?) now my response to her statement was as follows. you keep meeting the same dude! over and over again its the same dude! you know why you keep finding lames cause lame is your type you meet these dudes in the same type atmosphere why do you expect them to be any thing different? i was asking her so where did you meet dude she was like the club or the bar or the movies or such and such. im thinking to my self like hmmmmm am i the only fucker who sees a pattern here? *side note im not saying un lame people don't be at these types of places but im sure its more lames than un lames there so your chance of the un lame one coming to holla is slim to none* my thoughts on this if you don't raise the bar for your self than why do you expect different. im sure your calling cats lame but i grantee some one is calling you a lame. do you think your lame no. are you a lame no. there is some one for every one but because he was not want you wanted him to be or was looking for him to be he is lame. from know on think about the type of life you want to lead and find a man in that type atmosphere go to a book store a museum or a play or something and you just might find what you were looking for when you were out shaking your ass!
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14 years ago
ok well i must agree with u on tht one and to add to wht u are sayingif u keep meeting the same type of guythen there must be something tht she is doing tht keeps attracting tht same type of guy. now even tho i have the same problem and i meet men ast friends houses cook outs and all and they still end up being the same way, i had to do a self evaluation to see wht the hell im doing tht keeps making me meet the same type of man. and maybe thts what she needs to do to find someone tht is right for her.
ReplyDeletewell said sti sti
ReplyDeleteI agree! You can't expect to find something different if you're in the same setting looking for something better. Sometimes you have to go outside of your comfort zone, even if that is the club.
ReplyDeleteLame Huh? If a person is keep on meeting the same lame people in the same place maybe that person should go someplace else. Which is similar to which to Ziggy Za said.
ReplyDeleteOr Better yet. Go out the state. Or if you really want to get away form the Lame change your intrest/hobbies.