what's going on to all my readers? first i just want to thank all of yall for the support and just taking the time out to see what goes on in my mind.
i was just at my desk working and some random thoughts just hit me like wow. you know how people say when a women gets pregnant its her body her decision and what not i some what agree with that but that baby is just not hers. you know she could not make it on her own. what happens when a time comes where the women does not want the baby but the man does? does he not have a say so on something he helped create? does he not have the right to want to be a parent? i mean how do you think he would feel? i assume the same way some of you women feel when the man tells you he don't want the baby but because its your body you have the right to take parent hood away? also one thing i don't understand about child support if you know he don't want that baby but you do why is it you get to take his ass for child support you know his ass aint want the baby! i think it needs to be some type of law put up for child support like you can only take a dude for child support if he was in it for the long haul and then out the blue just decided to dip out on the woman. but if the man from 21 jump street so i am not ready to have a kid lets get it aborted why is he on child support? i hope some people will read this and give me some feed back i like to hear what every one has to say on what i am thinking!
I definitely think it should be the team's decision. But you should also discuss it before even becoming sexually active. I'm not sure there is a way to govern the child support idea. If he didn't want a baby, he should've worn a rubber...his own rubber.
ReplyDeleteAs far as the child support goes...the man could have been all for having a child at the time and in the event that things dont work out can say he never wanted it!!! What I dont like about child support is when women use it as income!!! Why in the world do you need $50,000 a month in child support...thats more than some folks make in a year!
ReplyDeleteI think if a woman has a child and the man doesn't want it i do think the man should have to pay IF that woman takes the father for child support because that man made the baby also you dont get the nut back so to speak so with that being said if you don't want a child and don't want to be there to help suport that child that by the way did't ask to be born or even made then cover your shit up and don't let your little swimmers out. It isn't just yesterday that a man knows that it isn't his body you do have the control weather on not a child is made you just said it when you were asking for feed back if you don't want to take care of them it's not hard don't make them. And if you slip up well it's just that a slip up but a life was made and if that mother wants the baby then saddly you have to take care of it and if don't she can take you for child support none of this is new we all know how it works men and women so if you don't want to pay cover it up.If they slip out you have to own up and take care of whats yours. If you only have sex with who you are with maybe it wouldn't be that bad if there was a slip up. And on the othe hand if you don't want to be put in the system just take care of your fucking kids!
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